不局限于愛情,加入對(duì)自我比如成長(zhǎng)經(jīng)歷對(duì)性格的塑造,對(duì)原生家庭的探討,和最近看的一本書《假性親密關(guān)系》可以搭配著理解。從自卑、害怕被拋棄到一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)建立自信,很有共鳴,多處戳中淚點(diǎn),但非常溫暖。//getting married is some kind of proof that,once and for all,she was lovable. / Instead it was quiet and calming and still. stopped wondering whether or not she was worth loving and simply cracked herself open.